Oh I also wanted to share this book, Small Steps Forward: Using Games and Activities to Help Your Pre-School Child with Special Needs, that my friend Jen gave me while I was in Germany that I have been reading. She works with families with Special Needs for a living, a family advocate if you will. Some people may not see how it applies, but I feel that it has been helpful in coping with preemies and them being behind, Collin in particular. And if it happens that either of them do end up with disabilities, then I wont feel so unprepared. With all the therapists and developmental delays, this book has been very helpful in making my time with them more productive.
Collin & Cyrus: Proof that when the odds are against you, you can still win by a landslide.
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
While I Was Away...
Oh I also wanted to share this book, Small Steps Forward: Using Games and Activities to Help Your Pre-School Child with Special Needs, that my friend Jen gave me while I was in Germany that I have been reading. She works with families with Special Needs for a living, a family advocate if you will. Some people may not see how it applies, but I feel that it has been helpful in coping with preemies and them being behind, Collin in particular. And if it happens that either of them do end up with disabilities, then I wont feel so unprepared. With all the therapists and developmental delays, this book has been very helpful in making my time with them more productive.
Monday, April 24, 2006
Home Sweet Home
It is nice to be home and back to a routine, and this weekend Craig celebrated his 31st birthday. We had some of his family and friends over to the house and his mom took us out to dinner for some great Mexican food. The servers made Craig stand up on his chair and swing a towel while they chanted a happy birthday to him. This however, the boys absolutely hated and Collin and Cyrus wailed and screamed through. We ended up having to take them out of the highchairs and cuddle them to calm them down. It was so cute and sad and funny all at once! The servers felt so bad they gave each of them a balloon and their own bowl of ice cream with chocolate syrup on top.
Let's see so what are the boys up to these days? Well, Cyrus is walking with assistance consistently now while holding only one hand. He is so close to walking on his own, I bet he can taste it! He can cruise the furniture like a master and often mows over Collin in the process. And speaking of Collin, Cyrus has taken to beating on Collin with toys and pulling his hair. The other day I had them in the same crib for their afternoon nap and Cyrus bit him on the leg really badly. Poor Collin has a mouth and teeth shaped purple and blue bruise; it's a good thing Collin is a tough little guy to take all this punishment. (I swear I do my best to keep Cyrus at bay!!) Cyrus can also go fetch his blankie when told and point to his ears, eyes, feet, and sometimes his nose. He is saying all sorts of stuff now, but no actual words in context yet. But I am proud to hear him babble mama all the time. He can try to say things like ball and foot, using the first consonant for words. I think I have been saying too much to them at a time and now that I am simplifying my sentences to them he is catching on faster. He is still a pain in the rear to feed but will open his mouth for yogurt, guacamole, and some finger foods like peas, diced carrots, green beans and all sorts of cracker/cookie things. It just depends on his mood whether he takes baby food or not, so it is touch and go whether he is self-fed.
Both of them are taking a ton more Pediasure now, 4 or 5 ounces at naptime and then up to 16 ounces at night!! I give them a bottle at bedtime and then before I go to sleep I replace it with a new full bottle and they drink it themselves as they want without my assistance. Yes people, it is wonderful! Even if they aren't sleeping through the night, they aren't needing me anymore to be fed!! I will not say that they are sleeping through the night though-since it cursed me the last time I said it. :P
Collin is getting his speech therapy evaluation in May which I am looking forward to. He got his new glasses which are snazzy but need to be adjusted to sit right on his face already. He is wearing them well, and Cyrus is going after them less and less. Collin is starting to come up into sitting on his own, a really big step we have been waiting for. He can sit up on his knees by himself, but that is not using his trunk muscles nearly as much as sitting on his bottom. He is still commando crawling but will get up on all fours when it suits him to play or crawl just a few paces. He is being very vocal and making more consonant sounds but nothing consistently, yet. Oh yeah, he is finally learning to fall without bumping his head. His balance overall is getting better, and more and more he will go from standing to sitting without flailing about. He has no fear of falling however since he seems to keep on trying to do things. He can pull himself into standing and cruises the furniture some but when we try to walk him he is very awkward and does not like to bend his left leg while standing (otherwise he bends it just fine). He hates to get changed and is quite a wiggle worm getting dressed or have his diaper changed. Au naturale must be his preference! LOL
Whew! Another atrociously long post, and I do not even have pictures on here yet! You guys do not mind though, do you? :P
At lunch with Jen (center) and her friends/co-workers Barb (left) and Tamara (right) at a local place on base in Ansbach. They were very cool chicas! Wassup ladies!
Here I am standing on a bridge in the cold (wearing my highly talked about coat) in Nürmberg. We did some great shopping, visited the Nazi Documentation Museum, and I had some excellent treats and pastries.
Friday, April 07, 2006
Vacation Time
The boys have had a cold all week from getting back out into the world after being in hiding all winter. They have horribly runny noses and a cough and they do not want to eat (the bane of my existence!). But since they are sick I have let them live off of yogurt, crackers, wagon wheels, stars, and baby food fruit puree both to make them feel better and to keep my stress levels down. Of course they are still getting bottles three to four times a day, but I don't have to mess with that anymore since they hold their own bottles so I don't count it. :P Poor Grandma will be taking on sick little boys while I am away, but they are still very happy babies so that makes up for it too.
Oh yeah, and lately Collin's glasses have had one lens keep popping out because the screw was loose, and on Sunday we finally lost the lens completely while on an outing to Home Depot. Good news is we had an eye Dr. appointment on Wednesday and have new glasses on order (the old ones were too small anyways). Poor Collin's SUPER nearsighted eyes are now -12.00 and -8.00 (legally blind without his glasses). No wonder Collin loves books so much! And I thought I was blind with only a -6.50 and -6.75 (FYI: my prescription is too strong for those groovy no rimmed glasses because they break from their own weight or something, grrr)!! The Dr. has told us to put off on the eye patch for now, which is good that I do not have to mess with it, but probably means we will be planning a surgery if his new prescription does not correct his lazy eye before the year is out. Which reminds me, Hey Bobbie, what is Hallie's prescription? You probably said it before in your blog, but I cannot remember...
Oh oh, I cannot believe I almost forgot to mention it...Collin is getting his first molar! Finally Collin is doing something before Cyrus (aside from being born that is, LOL) Grandma noticed it after the eye Dr. Appointment the other day while he was laughing upside down. Yeah, they love to hang upside down...
So, since I am leaving and wont be posting until I get back into the states, here are a few pics to help pass the time. I will likely be looking at them myself from my friend's computer in Germany. Hey Grandparents- you better email me pictures of the boys everyday!
Cyrus loves to eat the soap, and so I gave him a handful of bubbles to enjoy. And he made an old Man Cyrus Goatee out of it!
Collin got his own soap bubbles too. So easily amused, my babies, just like their mother!
The boys are still small enough to fit in to the baby swings together so the Baby Paparazzi had to shoot it. We were on our very first park outing since coming out of hiding with Aunt Jillaine and the boys' three cousins.
And here is the other view of them enjoying their swing ride.
Collin was having a wonderful time swinging in the big kids swing with Aunt Jillaine's best friend Stacy.
And the Baby Paparazzi was feeling left out of all these pictures so snuck into one with Cyrus.
Here is cousin Jace, about a year younger than the boys. Woo Hoo, a perfect playmate for all family functions. Isn't he a cutie!?
Sometimes all you need to do is sing funny songs, make funny faces and sounds and wave objects in front of their faces and you get adorable results (and worn out Baby Paparazzi's!).
This little specimen is much easier to please...
Here Collin was wreaking all sorts of havoc on Daddy's work because he was just long enough to reach the mousepad on the lap top. But it was so cute to see him imitate his Daddy...
Wow, I am really going to miss my family...